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‘I Was Struggling with Being Straight’: Finding Her Place in a Remarkable Family

Courtesy of Christina Hayes
The Sheriff/Hayes family, Version 1.0: Dave, May, Christina and Marnelle

 

This story originally aired on January 20, 2018.   

Thanksgiving dinner at the house where Christina Hayes grew up, in the Tri Cities in Eastern Washington, has all the normal things.

Her parents, who met in bible college, are there, along with extended family. There’s turkey and mashed potatoes and pumpkin pie: By all appearances they are a completely typical American family holiday.

“We’re playing, we’re laughing, we’re joking, we’re prepping food. We are like the Hallmark family,” Hayes said.

But Christina, who lives in Seattle, brought along a tape recorder this year, and interviewed her mom and dad about some of the twists and turns their family’s story has taken. It’s not the family Christina would have pictured when she was a kid, but it’s one she says she’s profoundly lucky to have ended up with.

 

Gabriel Spitzer is a former KNKX reporter, producer and host who covered science and health and worked on the show Sound Effect.